Your Element Is Air
You dislike conflict, and you’ve been able to rise above the angst of the world. And when things don’t go your way, you know they’ll blow over quickly.
Easygoing, you tend to find joy from the simple things in life. You roll with the punches, and as a result, your life is light and cheerful.
You find it easy to adapt to most situations, and you’re an open person. With you, what you see is what you get… and people love that!
How You Live Your Life
You have a good sense of self control and hate to show weakness.
You’re laid back and chill, but sometimes you care too much about what others think.
Your friends tend to be a as quirky as you are – which is saying a lot!
You tend to dream big, but you worry that your dreams aren’t attainable.
My score on The Beatles Song Character Test
(You scored 38 shyness, 25 bitterness, 54 moral, and 32 eccentric!)
Hey Jude! You are the average Joe/Jane, a decent person striving to make their place in the world. Full of hopes and dreams, but one of the things you want most is that special person to spend your life with. Don’t despair if you can’t seem to find them – you’re a prize!
“And anytime you feel the pain, hey Jude, refrain,
Don’t carry the world upon your shoulders.
For well you know that it’s a fool who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder.” – ‘Hey Jude’
Link: The Beatles Song Character Test
My score on The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test
Enneagram type is FOUR (aka “The Romantic“)
“I am unique”
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.
How to Get Along with Me
Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
Though I don’t always want to be cheered up when I’m feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
Don’t tell me I’m too sensitive or that I’m overreacting!
What I Like About Being a Four
my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
my ability to establish warm connections with people
admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
being unique and being seen as unique by others
having aesthetic sensibilities
being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me
What’s Hard About Being a Four
experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don’t deserve to be loved
feeling guilty when I disappoint people
feeling hurt or attacked when someone misunderstands me
expecting too much from myself and life
fearing being abandoned
obsessing over resentments
longing for what I don’t have
Fours as Children Often
have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
are very sensitive
feel that they don’t fit in
believe they are missing something that other people have
attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
become anti-authoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents’ divorce)
Fours as Parents
help their children become who they really are
support their children’s creativity and originality
are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed
Link: The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test (OkCupid)