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		<title>Bush Administration Pronounced Guilty of War Crimes, Crimes Against Humanity</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Sep 2006 18:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>The <a href="http://www.bushcommission.org/?q=node/50">Commission of Inquiry on Crimes Against Humanity Committed by the Bush Administration</a> released its final verdict on Wednesday, September 13, 2006. Guilty.</p>
<p>11:00 AM, Press Conference, Camp Democracy (Constitution &#038; 14)<br />
12:00 Noon, Delivery of Verdict to the White House</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bushcommission.org/Findings/Final%20Verdict.pdf">Full text of the verdict in PDF</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>An unprecedented Commission of Inquiry has found the President of the United States and his administration guilty of war crimes and crimes against humanity. The five-member panel of jurists unanimously found the administration’s actions “shock the conscience of humanity” in five areas – wars of aggression, illegal detention and torture, suppression of science and catastrophic policies on global warming, potentially genocidal abstinence-only policies imposed on HIV/AIDS prevention programs in the Third World, and the abandonment of New Orleans before, during, and after Hurricane Katrina.</p>
<p>THE VERDICT</p>
<p>In their summary, the Commission jurists found that: “Each of these constitutes a shocking crime in itself, and taken together the full horrors are all the more unconscionable. It is also clear that this is an administration that demonstrates an utter disregard for truth and flagrantly lies about the reasons for its actions.</p>
<p>&#8220;In arriving at this decision the jurists were particularly alarmed by the degree to which the Bush Administration’s actions in all five indictments were informed by the extreme right. &#8230;. although the specific conduct differs among the indictments, the result is the same: human life was debased and devalued by gratuitous acts of violence, torture, narrow self interest, indifference, and disregard.&#8221;</p>
<p>In arriving at their verdict, the Commission’s panel of jurists examined a wealth of evidence with care and rigor. Consistent standards were employed, with well-established international law referenced where applicable.</p>
<p>The panel of jurists consisted of Adjoa A. Aiyetoro, William H. Bowen School of Law, Little Rock; former executive director, National Conference of Black Lawyers (NCBL). Dennis Brutus, former prisoner, Robben Island (South Africa), poet, professor emeritus, University of Pittsburgh. Abdeen Jabara, former president, American-Arab Anti-Discrimination Committee. Ajamu Sankofa, former executive director, Physicians for Social Responsibility-NY. Ann Wright, former US diplomat and retired US Army Reserve Colonel.</p>
<p>THE HEARINGS</p>
<p>The Commission’s year-long investigation included five days of public hearings in October 2005 and January 2006 in New York City. The 45 expert and first-hand witnesses included former commander of Abu Ghraib prison Brig. Gen. Janis Karpinski, former British ambassador to Uzbekistan Craig Murray, former UN official Denis Halliday, former UN arms inspector Scott Ritter, Guantanamo prisoners’ lawyer Barbara Olshansky, and Katrina survivors.</p>
<p>The verdict’s release comes with war crimes again on front pages following President Bush’s defense of secret prisons, rendition, and practices constituting torture under existing law, his demand that the War Crimes Act be fundamentally weakened, and his threats against Iran.</p>
<p>In a preface to the printed verdict, historian Howard Zinn writes: &#8220;The Bush Administration has been following a course, which can only now be described as a series of crimes against humanity. . . . What could be a higher crime than sending the young people of the country into a war against a small country on the other side of the world, which is no danger to the United States, and in fact a war which is condemned by people all over the world and a war which results in, not only the loss of American lives and the crippling of young Americans, but results in the loss of huge numbers of people in Iraq? These are high crimes.&#8221;
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		<title>Yes. Thank you Colbert.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 May 2006 20:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been waiting a bit to comment on the White House Correspondents&#8217; Dinner. There are a lot of opinions out there, and I&#8217;m happy most of all that people are talking and writing and thinking about issues, humor and satire vs. criticism and insult, comedy as news, the role of a court jester, and so on. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.stevebridges.com/">Steve Bridges</a> did a great imitation of Bush, and was obviously Bush&#8217;s own choice (for his own roast, he gets to choose?). I&#8217;ve heard that Bridges can do Clinton just as well. That was the light side of the dinner, although there were a couple of low-grade zings in that one, too. </p>
<p>But I have to say that I think Colbert&#8217;s performance was the more important. I did actually think much of it was funny, in the traditional way of a roast.  As it went on, he transitioned through court jester, and went all the way to performative critique. The film clip of Colbert pretending to be the White House Spokesman forced the viewer to dwell in a fairly unpleasant space &#8211; it even made me a little anxious because of the genre of suspense, the music, the way it was drawn out. It was meant to make people squirm. It worked for that, but I could almost hear the pulse of a pounding vein in Bush&#8217;s own head by the end of it. </p>
<p>The video wasn&#8217;t funny &#8211; but it was performative, dramatic, and scathing in its depiction, and that was even better. Scott McClellan probably had the most right to feel attacked&#8230;. wasn&#8217;t that pretty much a depiction of him? </p>
<p>It focused on a single question, finally: Why <em>did</em> we really go to war in Iraq? </p>
<p>Helen Thomas herself &#8211; I swear I saw her wipe a tear. I was glad to see someone stand up for her, and for the questions she&#8217;s not been allowed to ask anymore despite her long history as the media hardnose to the President. And I was glad to see someone stand up for us, we who are being fed a bunch of hogwash propaganda day and night, straight from the White House to Fox News, etc. </p>
<p>Anyone who has watched the Daily Show or the Colbert Report would know what his humor was like. Remember, he was invited.</p>
<p>I fully expected Colbert to <a href="http://www.filmsite.org/soun3.html">pull a Family von Trapp</a> while the film clip was playing, but to my shock and admiration, he was still standing there at the end. </p>
<p><a href="http://thankyoustephencolbert.org/">Thank you Stephen Colbert</a></p>
<p><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-869183917758574879">The Speech Video</a></p>
<p><a href="http://colbert.cf.huffingtonpost.com/">Stephen Colbert Musical Extravaganza</a> </p>
<p><a href="http://www.comedycentral.com/shows/the_colbert_report/i">The Colbert Report</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.ifilm.com/search">Colbert Clips on ifilm</a></p>
<p>Yes, I approve. </p>
<p>Why? Because I&#8217;m angry at his administration &#8211; Bush, Cheney, Rumsfeld, Rice, et. al. &#8211; as well as its  bullied, corrupt, or spineless members of Congress, the controlled or cowardly media, and the American people themselves &#8211; who have allowed our country to be twisted and trampled into something it should never be. If we continue on this path, our future is dismal.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.truthout.org/docs_2006/050906R.shtml">William Rivers Pitt</a> puts it pithily (when angry, spitting and sputtering are common) &#8211; Why the anger?</p>
<blockquote><p>Because millions of people are staggered by the idea that, yes Virginia, we have to go through this again. We have to watch soldiers slaughter and be slaughtered for reasons that bear no markings of truth. We have to watch the reputation of this great nation be savaged. We have to watch as our leaders lie to us with their bare faces hanging out.</p>
<p>    Why the anger? It can be summed up in one run-on sentence: We have lost two towers in New York, a part of the Pentagon, an important American city called New Orleans, our economic solvency, our global reputation, our moral authority, our children&#8217;s future, we have lost tens of thousands of American soldiers to death and grievous injury, we must endure the Abramoffs and the Cunninghams and the Libbys and the whores and the bribes and the utter corruption, we must contemplate the staggering depth of the hole we have been hurled down into, and we expect little to no help from the mainstream DC press, whose lazy go-along-to-get-along cocktail-circuit mentality allowed so much of this to happen because they failed comprehensively to do their job.</p>
<p>    George W. Bush and his pals used September 11th against the American people, used perhaps the most horrific day in our collective history, deliberately and with intent, to foster a war of choice that has killed untold tens of thousands of human beings and basically bankrupted our country. They lied about the threat posed by Iraq. They destroyed the career of a CIA agent who was tasked to keep an eye on Iran&#8217;s nuclear ambitions, and did so to exact petty political revenge against a critic. They tortured people, and spied on American civilians.</p>
<p>    You cannot fathom anger arising from this? </p></blockquote>
<p>There is at least a small amount of comfort in knowing that that the President had to hear, at least once, a few of the reasons why those approval figures are so low. </p>
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		<title>Living with War</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 May 2006 19:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Listen to Neil Young&#8217;s new album, <a href="http://www.hyfntrak.com/neilyoung2/AFF24855/">Living with War</a>.</p>
<p>Visit <a href="http://livingwithwar.blogspot.com/">the blog</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>Don&#8217;t need no ad machine<br />
Telling me what I need<br />
Don&#8217;t need no Madison Avenue War<br />
Don&#8217;t need no more boxes I can see</p>
<p>Covered in flags but I can&#8217;t see them on TV</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t need no more lies<br />
Don&#8217;t need no more lies<br />
Don&#8217;t need no more lies
</p></blockquote>
<p>Click on the track title for the lyrics in ticker formet at the official website, or <a href="http://www.human-highway.org/lyrics/lyrics-47.html">here</a> for the whole list.</p>
<blockquote><ul>
<li>1) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/1afterthegarden_lyrics.html" target="_blank">After The Garden</a></li>
<li>2) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/2livingwithwar_lyrics.html" target="_blank">Living With War</a></li>
<li>3) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/3therestlessconsumer_lyrics.html" target="_blank">The Restless Consumer</a></li>
<li>4) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/4shockandawe_lyrics.html" target="_blank">Shock And Awe</a></li>
<li>5) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/5families_lyrics.html" target="_blank">Families</a></li>
<li>6) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/6flagsoffreedom_lyrics.html" target="_blank">Flags of Freedom</a></li>
<li>7) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/7letsimpeachthepresident_lyrics.html" target="_blank">Let&#8217;s Impeach The President</a></li>
<li> <img src='http://www.virushead.net/vhrandom/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/8lookinforaleader_lyrics.html" target="_blank">Lookin&#8217; For A Leader</a></li>
<li>9) <a href="http://neilyoung.com/lww/9rogerandout_lyrics.html" target="_blank">Roger And Out</a></li>
<li>10) <a href="http://neilyoung.com" target="_blank">America The Beautiful</a></li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Let&#8217;s Impeach The President&#8221;</p>
<p>Let’s impeach the President for lying<br />
And misleading our country into war<br />
Abusing all the power that we gave him<br />
And shipping all our money out the door</p>
<p>Who’s the man who hired all the criminals<br />
The White House shadows who hide behind closed doors<br />
They bend the facts to fit with their new stories<br />
Of why we have to send our men to war</p>
<p>Let’s impeach the President for spying<br />
On citizens inside their own homes<br />
Breaking every law in the country<br />
By tapping our computers and telephones</p>
<p>What if Al Qaeda blew up the levees<br />
Would New Orleans have been safer that way<br />
Sheltered by our government’s protection<br />
Or was someone just not home that day?</p>
<p>        (Bush clips)<br />
Flip &#8211; Flop <br />
Flip &#8211; Flop<br />
Flip &#8211; Flop<br />
Flip &#8211; Flop</p>
<p>Let’s impeach the president for hijacking<br />
Our religion and using it to get elected<br />
Dividing our country into colors<br />
And still leaving black people neglected</p>
<p>Thank god he’s cracking down on steroids<br />
Since he sold his old baseball team<br />
There’s lots of people looking at big trouble<br />
But of course our president is clean.</p>
<p>
Thank God
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<p>I&#8217;ve added him to the &#8220;Salute&#8221; category of links. Thanks Neil.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>This is the first chance I&#8217;ve had to tell about last weekend, when we drove down to Tallahassee, then to <a href="http://www.pebblehill.com/">Pebble Hill Plantation</a> for my nephew&#8217;s wedding. My hubby in his infinite wisdom had selected the hotel nearest Starbucks for our stay. Unfortunately, it was an Econolodge. His two brothers (Steve and Tom) and their wives (Pat and Pam, respectively) were there too. That made it quite tolerable despite the lowish quality of the rooms because we were able to have a few long talks together in the picnic area. One aspect of the conversation that I particularly enjoyed involved Steve&#8217;s work in forensics. His office, it seems, is not <em>quite</em> identical to those we know from television and movie versions of crime scene investigations. The actual procedures and methods and strategies they use were fascinating to me.  It&#8217;s clear that he loves his job and that he&#8217;s very very good at it.  We all shared various anecdotes and memories with one another and, for me, it was one of the highlights of the trip.</p>
<p>The first night, we all met for dinner. We spent some time with the remaining sibling (my sister-in-law) Laura and John (who had dropped a good bit of weight since the last time I saw him).  We also got to spend a little time with (my brother-in-law&#8217;s sister) Marsha and Randy. I remember them quite fondly, especially because of a rollicking dinner we had once at their place.  Randy has a twirly waxed mustache, and Marsha has a beautiful warm face, and they are both wonderful charming people. She works for the Forestry Service, and is especially charged when things actually get accomplished there <em>despite</em> whatever political agendas happen to be on the table. It&#8217;s always a good time when they are involved.</p>
<p>We had a drink or two while waiting for the table. From the balcony where we finally settled in we could hear some kind of jazz performance taking place in downtown (or is it uptown?) Tallahassee. The atmosphere was invigorating, carefree.</p>
<p>We arrived at the wedding rehearsal the next afternoon a few minutes late. Feeling foolish, we anxiously wandered all over the grounds looking for where it was supposed to take place. Finally we ran into Laura and she didn&#8217;t know where it was either! Finally we met up with the others and convened under a huge live oak &#8211; rehearsal went well and the bride-to-be was incredibly poised &#8211; and on high heels! Ben solemnly practiced his ringbearing duties. As we were leaving, people were getting set up in the next field to watch Glenn Campbell play. Yes. <a href="http://www.glencampbellshow.com/calendar.html">Glenn Campbell</a>. Just as we were passing a man that Laura thought might actually have been him, I happened to be saying, &#8220;Well, he&#8217;s no Johnny Cash, but&#8230;&#8221; <em>Faux pas</em> of the day, my turn.</p>
<p>I got a chance there to talk a little bit with Lance, my other nephew and the younger brother of the groom. I&#8217;ve had a soft spot for him since we first met, because I was charmed by his desire to sing (and play his guitar) and the way that longing was tempered by a very real shyness. The result was that he sang Eric Clapton songs to me in an almost impossibly soft voice. He&#8217;s always been curious about a lot of difficult questions concerning life, the universe, and everything. I suppose I shouldn&#8217;t have been so taken aback to hear that he has become religious. He&#8217;s become part of a fellowship that meets in homes &#8211; pentacostal, healing, anti-trinitarian. We traded some bible verses and doctrinal perspectives. His eyes were bright with the unmistakable spirit of the newly converted. I tried to ascertain where along the spectrum (from &#8220;compassionate believers gathered in a spirit of love&#8221; to &#8220;time to drink the Cool-aid&#8221;) this group might fall. He had personally invested in boxes of bibles to send to New Orleans &#8211; no fundraiser, no distribution network. He also mentioned that he dropped a course in New Testament when the professor introduced the &#8220;Q source&#8221; (within the realm of possible biblical scholarship, a fairly innocuous bit of critical text research) that he felt was too challenging to his faith.  There were a couple of other red flags for me as well, but I was very comfortable talking to him and look forward to some deeper, more lengthy discussion.  I care about him, and I hope it will all turn out all right.</p>
<p>On the day of the wedding, I looked fabulous, even if I do say so myself. John had gotten me a gorgeous burgundy floor-length dress and I felt smashing. I think he had become nervous in reaction to my joking comment that I was planning to attend the plantation wedding in a hooped flowered dress and a hat.  </p>
<p>It was my job to pin the flowers on all the guys, including the groom. I managed to do it without puncturing their chests or my fingers and none of the flowers stuck out funny or fell off. Accomplishment!</p>
<p>I did have a weird moment of cognitive dissonance when JT&#8217;s (black) professional colleague arrived with his (also black) wife. They were &#8220;ooh-ing&#8221; and &#8220;aah-ing&#8221; about how gorgeous the plantation was.  Um.  Well.  Suddenly I felt so strange to be walking around on the grounds of a plantation. It&#8217;s a historial site. It&#8217;s quite beautiful. Still, for a moment, I was in the twilight zone.</p>
<p>JT and Tonya had a sweet ceremony under the oak tree. It was a little full of talk about God&#8217;s will, but that&#8217;s probably just my JW scar tissue talking. They had written secret letters to one another, which were read by the best man and the maid of honor (matron, really, but she still looked like a maid). There were moments here and there when they each had suspiciously glistening eyes, and I lost it for a moment myself. Ben was given a little bird&#8217;s nest for carrying the rings (excellent idea!), which I&#8217;m saving to give back on their tenth anniversary.</p>
<p>After the ceremony, we all walked over to the courtyard at the stables, where a band had already set up, and drinks were served. Ben (age 5)  garnered an admirer named Elizabeth (age 6), who wanted him to dance with her and visit with the Clysdale horses (My stepson Evan claimed that he &#8211; himself, not Ben- had actually hopped the fence and rode one of them). Ben and Elizabeth spent much of the night running around the place together. They taught each other their best dance moves. She had the biggest, most adoring brown eyes I have ever seen. It was outstandingly cute.</p>
<p>I shared some back and forth banter with my beloved &#8220;political nemesis&#8221; brother-in-law John. He didn&#8217;t call me a feminazi this time.. only a socialist. He informed me that not only did I take myself too seriously, but that I was on the wrong side of history. In his opinion, what we really need in this country is a dictator. Sure, and that&#8217;s an American value. A benevolent reading would be that sometimes he exaggerates to push my buttons. We&#8217;re never going to agree on anything political, but I told him I loved him anyway (&#8220;not fair!&#8221; he charged as he wagged his finger at me). I can&#8217;t help it. As frustrating and unreachable as he is, I think he is an interesting guy. I&#8217;m always trying to figure out how this could have happened to him. He says his alliance was formed when JFK was shot, but that doesn&#8217;t make any sense to me. He is someone that really ought to be able to connect the dots to understand the ways in which he and his family (not to mention countless others) have been shafted by the right. But he doesn&#8217;t see it.  He&#8217;s too invested in counting himself in with what he perceives to be the &#8220;winning side,&#8221; whether or not he is actually the sort of person in whose interests the &#8220;winners&#8221; ever act. Anyway, I think he&#8217;s one of the very few far <em>far</em> right wing people that I actually care about and with whom I can converse &#8211; and who tolerates me (to varying degrees) as well.</p>
<p>JT wrote and performed a song to his bride. How many weddings have you gone to where the groom pulls out an electric guitar and performs for the first time in public?</p>
<p>We all danced. The band introduced &#8220;I Will Survive&#8221; as a song for the WOMEN! That made me laugh because my associations have more to do with gay parades I&#8217;ve walked in, but I guess that&#8217;s what you say that close to &#8220;Jeb country.&#8221; Why would you play a song about continuing on after a bad breakup at a wedding reception anyway? At least they didn&#8217;t play &#8220;Paradise By the Dashboard Light.&#8221; </p>
<p>It ended with a loud hoot &#8216;n holler parade around the courtyard &#8211; a New Orleans style send-off. They had gotten engaged in New Orleans, and had recently provided a place to stay for friends of theirs who lost everything there. New Orleans is a special place to the bride and groom for a number of reasons, and somehow that seemed exactly the right kind of conclusion. </p>
<p>We wish them a life together of laughter and love.</p>
<p>(Oh, for my friends at Blogazoo, here&#8217;s a <a href="http://www.blogazoo.com/gAzoos.php?id=111&#038;key=37996281">gAzoo</a>)</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Like&#8221; a third-world country?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>If you want to live in the America you&#8217;ve heard about, you&#8217;ve got to start noticing what&#8217;s really happening. A democracy requires your attention and participation. Drollette has a few choice words for those who don&#8217;t understand that by many standard measures, we are a kind of banana republic. The comparisons have been made by others, with more facts and figures, but I like the wording here. The article is worth reading (actually the &#8220;Smirking Chimp&#8221; site, despite its dehumanizing name, has been picking up better and better articles over the last few months &#8211; check out the headlines on the right-hand menu).</p>
<p><a href="http://www.smirkingchimp.com/print.php?sid=22637">The Mark Drolette: &#8216;What do you mean, it&#8217;s &#8216;like&#8217; living in a Third World country?&#8217; &#8211; Smirking Chimp</a></p>
<blockquote><p>As the blistering is applied, one refrain is heard with regularity: &#8220;This is America, not some Third World country.&#8221;</p>
<p>Hmm. Well, when I think of a Third World country, I think of one where the already-filthy rich get much richer at the expense of the ever-poorer, where millions go without basic health care, where elections are fixed, where education becomes a privilege only for the privileged, where the environment is poisoned and plundered, where national debt is mega-astronomical, where women&#8217;s rights are under pressure, where government is corrupt and squarely in the filching hands of Big Business, where labor is vilified and oppressed, where civil liberties are stripped, where precious resources are thrown away on, oh, let&#8217;s say, bombs and tanks and ships and planes while its citizens go hungry&#8230;</p>
<p>And where the country&#8217;s leadership doesn&#8217;t care if its own people die. Not until, that is, the dying is done out in the open and is no longer out of the newspapers.</p>
<p>Some readers may know I&#8217;m planning to retire to Costa Rica next year, a country that carries Third World status. Costa Rica has national health care, a literacy rate in the mid-90s, clean water, safe food, a fine educational system, a quarter of its land dedicated to national parks, and no standing military. I&#8217;ve often mused how nice it would be if those things could be found in &#8220;advanced&#8221; America.</p>
<p>So who&#8217;s zooming who?</p>
<p>Many, if not most, of us who have been paying attention to America&#8217;s gradual (and intentional) dismantling over the last two decades, accelerating to warp-speed during King George&#8217;s reign, cannot be surprised at what&#8217;s happened in New Orleans and the Gulf States over the past week. Aghast, yes. Surprised, no.</p></blockquote>
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