{"id":1428,"date":"2007-01-04T12:26:20","date_gmt":"2007-01-04T17:26:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/2007\/01\/04\/friendship-above-disagreement\/"},"modified":"2007-01-04T12:26:20","modified_gmt":"2007-01-04T17:26:20","slug":"friendship-above-disagreement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/2007\/01\/friendship-above-disagreement\/","title":{"rendered":"Friendship Above Disagreement"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is more like it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/paula-gordon\/beauty-in-my-friends-dea_b_37803.html\">Beauty in My Friend&#8217;s Death<\/a> by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/paula-gordon\">Paula Gordon<\/a> at The Huffington Post  <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Elizabeth Fox-Genovese is how the world knew her, a scholar and intellectual. It was Betsey I knew. Our friendship was a practice in an unfashionable truth &#8212; people need not agree to be steadfast, life-long, dear friends.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, it was always a surprise when Betsey and I found each other, all the more so when we both ended up in Atlanta. And over the years, she and I came to disagree profoundly about practically every idea that once had brought us together. And still, a larger truth shone brighter. We loved each other for who we were. Kept up with each other through the rough and smooth parts. And it&#8217;s mostly the very small, very personal things on which I now find myself dwelling in this sad moment.<\/p>\n<p>Betsey and I graced each other&#8217;s lives. We reached across a number of genuine divides we both fully acknowledged. Why bother? Because we cherished each other and our friendship. In the face of her death, that is where I find the beauty.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is more like it&#8230; Beauty in My Friend&#8217;s Death by Paula Gordon at The Huffington Post Elizabeth Fox-Genovese is how the world knew her, a scholar and intellectual. It was Betsey I knew. Our friendship was a practice in an unfashionable truth &#8212; people need not agree to be steadfast, life-long, dear friends. &#8230; Over the years, it was always a surprise when Betsey and I found each other, all the more so when we both ended up in&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"><a class=\"btn btn-default\" href=\"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/2007\/01\/friendship-above-disagreement\/\"> Read More<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">  Read More<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,5,3,8],"tags":[3342,516,3344],"class_list":["post-1428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-academia","category-culture","category-politics","category-religion","tag-elizabeth-fox-genovese","tag-friendship","tag-tribute"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1428","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1428"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1428\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1428"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1428"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.virushead.net\/vhrandom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1428"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}