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Update on Nicolette’s Death

Update on Nicolette’s Death

I’ve got a little bit more information about my friend Nicolette’s death. You might have been able to tell from my post – even in my frenzied grief – that I was very much afraid that her death was a suicide. I knew her very well, knew what she had been trying to navigate, knew what she had to look forward to, and … frankly, it made sense in a lot of ways. But our friend Prema pointed out that…

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My Friend Nicolette is Dead

My Friend Nicolette is Dead

I saw Nicolette when I was up in New England in the fall. Now she’s dead. I don’t know any details beyond that her neighbor found Nicolette (also known as Kate) in a pool of blood in her apartment. Our mutual friend Jenn called me from work; we had both been talking with Nikky a lot during the last few months (She absolutely hated to be called Nikky, but it’s how we knew her as children). The last time I…

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